Got trust?

A hallmark of attachment disorder is lack of trust in caregivers and self. The child’s core belief (negative working model) about caregivers is “I cannot trust that caregivers will keep me safe, fulfill my needs, or love and value me.” The child’s core belief about...

The importance of touch

All warm-blooded animals are born with an innate need to be touched and stroked affectionately. Research confirmed that the handling or gentling of mammals early in life results in an increased weight gain, activity, and resilience under stress (Simon 1976). The...
Attachment and the courts

Attachment and the courts

We recently received a call from a distraught woman who said she has a 4-month-old baby she has parented as a single mother. The woman said she is no longer in a relationship with the child’s father, whom she never married.  The father hired a lawyer, went to...