We need fathers

Father-child relationships have a profound and far-reaching effect on children, women, communities, and on the lives of men themselves. Fathers have a significant influence on attachment and child development.  Fathers and mothers influence their children in similar...
Parents must understand their past

Parents must understand their past

To be a competent and successful parent you need the ability to look in the mirror regarding your mindset, feelings, and attachment history.  Knowing yourself – making sense of your life and coming to terms with your past – is the first step in helping your children...
Six core concepts for child development

Six core concepts for child development

In order to develop effective solutions to the problems of children and families we must first understand the nature of child development. This is what we know about how children develop, described as six core concepts that form the foundation necessary to prevent and...
Talking about trauma is important

Talking about trauma is important

It is common for children and adults with histories of maltreatment, trauma, and compromised attachment to avoid painful memories and reminders of prior negative experiences. Although such avoidance reduces anxiety in the short term, in the long run it maintains fear,...
Why children do chores

Why children do chores

In the past, children fulfilled a significant role in the survival of the family. Before supermarkets and washing machines, families were burdened with a tremendous amount of work. Food had to be prepared from scratch, clothes had to be handmade, wood had to be...